What Does 2 Corinthians 2:3 Mean?

And I wrote this very thing to you, so that when I came I would not have pain from those I ought to rejoice over, leaning my full weight upon you all, that my joy is the joy of you all.
2 Corinthians 2:3 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
And I wrote this same unto you, lest, when I came, I should have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy is the joy of you all.

Joy here is not a private feeling but a bond whose fullness lives in everyone sharing it.

Your joy is held in relationship: what brings gladness to the people with you can become part of your own gladness. Confidence in one another makes that joy something shared, rather than something one person possesses alone.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

This dissolves the belief that joy must be solitary, that another person’s gladness belongs only to them.

χαρά

chara

GROWS FROM

χαίρω

rejoice, be glad

The noun for joy belongs to the same word family as the verb for rejoicing. A related verb, ⁨συγχαίρω⁩ (synchairō), means to rejoice with someone, making shared gladness visible inside the word family itself.

ALSO GROWS

chairō: rejoice, be glad

χαίρω

The related verb shows joy as something expressed, not only felt.

synchairō: rejoice with someone

συγχαίρω

This branch makes explicit the shared joy the verse names: one person’s gladness can join another’s.

πεποιθώς

pepoithōs

GROWS FROM

πείθω

persuade, convince

“leaning my full weight upon you all” in this verse is pepoithōs. The confidence described here carries the sense of settled persuasion. It is directed toward the people addressed, joining assurance to the shared joy rather than leaving it as an abstract feeling.

ALSO GROWS

peithō: persuade, convince

πείθω

The root suggests confidence grounded in being persuaded.

pepoitha: trust, be confident

πέποιθα

This related form shows the settled trust expressed by the writer’s confidence in them.

Shared joy grows when another person’s good becomes part of one’s own gladness.

The LORD has grown great in doing with us, and we were glad.
Psalm 126:3 · SDVThe community receives its gladness together, as one shared response to what has been done for them.
Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.
Romans 12:15 · SDVAnother person’s joy becomes something to enter into together.
I have no greater joy than this, to hear my children walking in truth.
3 John 1:4 · SDVThe well-being of others becomes the speaker’s own deepest gladness.
Fill my joy, that you think the same thing, having the same love, of one living soul, thinking the one thing.
Philippians 2:2 · SDV

Philippians uses the same Greek word for “joy,” ⁨χαρά⁩ (chara), linking gladness with shared love and one accord. It opens the phrase “the joy of you all” as a joy that comes fully into view among people joined in it.

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2 Corinthians 2:3 Meaning