What Does 2 Samuel 13:33 Mean?

Now therefore, let not my lord the king set this word to his heart, that all the king's sons are dead. For Amnon only is dead.
2 Samuel 13:33 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king’s sons are dead: for Amnon only is dead.

A report can be placed in the heart without being true: this verse separates the real loss from the greater fear.

A devastating report can seize attention and still misstate the truth. The verse holds the real loss, Amnon is dead, apart from the larger claim that all the king’s sons are dead. It speaks whenever fear turns one confirmed loss into an imagined total loss.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

The belief that because one devastating loss is real, everything you love is already lost.

דָּבָר

davar

GROWS FROM

דבר

To speak or declare; as a noun, a word, matter, or thing.

“set this word to his heart” in this verse is davar. The word translated “thing” is davar, which can name both what is spoken and the matter itself. Here, a spoken report is poised to become the matter held in the king’s heart, though the correction shows the report exceeds the truth.

ALSO GROWS

dibber: Spoke, declared

דִּבֵּר

The king hears a claim as speech; its being spoken does not make it true.

davar: Word, matter, thing

דָּבָר

The same word can name an utterance and the matter at issue, joining what is said to what is believed to have happened.

יָשֵׂם

yasem

GROWS FROM

שים

To put, set, or place.

“set this word to his heart” in this verse is yasem. The Hebrew says, in effect, “let him not put this matter into his heart.” It distinguishes hearing a report from installing it as the inward account of reality.

ALSO GROWS

sim: Put, place, set

שִׂים

This is the concrete action beneath the phrase: a report can be placed within the heart.

sim lev: Set the heart; attend to

שִׂים לֵב

The idiom keeps the image of placement, showing how attention gives a matter inward weight.

לִבּוֹ

libbo

GROWS FROM

לבב

The inward self: heart and mind.

The heart is the inward center of thought as well as feeling. The question is not only what hurts, but which account of events has taken hold within.

ALSO GROWS

lev: Heart, inner self

לֵב

The king is cautioned against letting the report become his inward understanding.

levav: Heart, inner mind

לֵבָב

This fuller form also points to the mind, reinforcing that “take to heart” concerns what is accepted as true.

A terrifying report does not become the whole truth merely because it reaches the heart first.

The one who returns a word before he hears it, folly and shame are his.
Proverbs 18:13 · SDVA matter needs to be heard fully before a first impression hardens into a conclusion.
You shall not lift up a false report; do not set your hand with the wicked to be a witness of violence.
Exodus 23:1 · SDVThe verse names the danger of a report that distorts what is true.
But Jesus, overhearing the word that was spoken, at once said to the ruler of the synagogue, "Do not fear, only lean your full weight."
Mark 5:36 · SDVA report of death arrives, and the response refuses to let fear decide that it is the final word.
He does not fear evil report; his heart is set firm, leaning his weight on the LORD.
Psalm 112:7 · SDV

Both verses use lev, “heart,” beside the arrival of troubling news. Here the king is cautioned against placing an untrue report in his heart; the psalm shows a heart remaining firm as bad tidings arrive.

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2 Samuel 13:33 Meaning