What Does 2 Samuel 20:17 Mean?

And when he drew near to her, the woman said, Are you Joab? And he answered, I am he. Then she said to him, Hear and respond to the words of your handmaid. And he answered, I hear and respond.
2 Samuel 20:17 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
And when he was come near unto her, the woman said, Art thou Joab? And he answered, I am he. Then she said unto him, Hear the words of thine handmaid. And he answered, I do hear.

The first opening in a siege is a commander’s willingness to hear.

This verse speaks wherever a decision is being made under pressure and someone asks to be heard. The woman’s request reaches Joab, and his answer turns physical nearness into attention: he is listening to what she has to say. Her words now have room to affect what happens next.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

It dissolves the assumption that a person in a servant’s position has nothing worth hearing from a commander.

שְׁמַע

shemaʿ shomeaʿ

GROWS FROM

שמע

sh-m-ʿ

To hear and attend to what is heard.

“Hear and respond to the words” in this verse is shemaʿ shomeaʿ. The request ⁨שְׁמַע⁩ (shemaʿ) and the answer ⁨שֹׁמֵעַ⁩ (shomeaʿ) are two forms of the same root. What she asks for is already present in his reply: attentive hearing that can respond, not just sound reaching the ears.

ALSO GROWS

shemaʿ: Hear; attend and respond.

שְׁמַע

This is the woman’s request: she asks Joab to receive what she says and respond to it.

shomeaʿ: Hearing; one who listens.

שֹׁמֵעַ

Joab answers with this form of the same root: “hearing, I am”, linking his reply directly to her request.

דִּבְרֵי

divrei

GROWS FROM

דבר

d-b-r

To speak; as a noun, a word, matter, or thing.

The English “words” can sound like language alone, while ⁨דָּבָר⁩ (davar) can also name the matter or thing being spoken about. Her speech is presented as something substantial enough to be heard and reckoned with.

ALSO GROWS

davar: Word; matter; thing.

דָּבָר

Her “words” belong to a root that also names the matter itself, giving her speech weight in the negotiation.

dibber: Spoke; to speak.

דִּבֵּר

This verbal branch connects what Joab hears with the act of speaking that brings the matter before him.

וַיִּקְרַב

vayyiqrav

GROWS FROM

קרב

q-r-b

To approach or draw near.

“drew near to her” in this verse is vayyiqrav. Joab first comes near in physical space, then answers the woman’s request by giving her words his attention. The same root forms ⁨קָרְבָּן⁩ (qorban), something brought near, echoing the movement from approach toward an exchange.

ALSO GROWS

qarav: Approach; come near.

קָרַב

This is the verb describing Joab’s approach to the woman.

qorban: A drawing near; an offering brought near.

קָרְבָּן

This related word makes the root’s movement toward nearness visible beneath Joab’s physical approach.

Hearing before answering can interrupt conflict before a response becomes folly or wrath.

The one who returns a word before he hears it, folly and shame are his.
Proverbs 18:13 · SDVThis verse names the danger of answering before a matter has been heard.
Guard your foot as you walk to the house of God. Draw near to hear and respond rather than give the slaughter-offering of the thick-headed, for they do not know how to do harm.
Ecclesiastes 5:1 · SDVIt places readiness to hear ahead of a response offered without understanding.
Know this, my beloved brothers. Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to swell.
James 1:19 · SDVIt connects quick hearing with slower speech and anger, giving the same pause room to work.
And the LORD came, and stood, and called as at other times, Samuel, Samuel. Then Samuel answered, Speak, for your servant hears and responds.
1 Samuel 3:10 · SDV

Joab’s ⁨שֹׁמֵעַ⁩ (shomeaʿ, hearing) is the same Hebrew form Samuel uses for “heareth.” In both verses, that response makes room for another voice to speak; here, the listening happens in the middle of a siege and negotiation.

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2 Samuel 20:17 Meaning