What Does 2 Samuel 3:13 Mean?

And David said, Good. I will cut a covenant with you. But one thing I ask of you. You shall not see my face unless you first bring Michal, the daughter of Saul, when you come to see my face.
2 Samuel 3:13 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
And he said, Well; I will make a league with thee: but one thing I require of thee, that is, Thou shalt not see my face, except thou first bring Michal Saul’s daughter, when thou comest to see my face.

David calls it a covenant, yet makes access to his face conditional on Michal being brought to him.

A bond can be offered with access held behind a condition. David’s face remains unavailable until Michal is brought; she is named as a term of the agreement, but is given no voice in the sentence. The verse shows how a promise between two speakers can place a third person inside its terms.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

It undoes the assumption that an agreement called a covenant is necessarily unconditional: here the offer immediately includes a demand that governs access.

שֹׁאֵל

sho’el

GROWS FROM

שׁאל

sha’al

To ask, request, or inquire.

“ask” in this verse is sho’el. The Hebrew verb carries the sense of asking or requesting. It echoes Saul’s name, ⁨שָׁאוּל⁩ (Sha’ul), meaning “asked for”: David’s request concerns Saul’s daughter, making the name of her father sound within the demand.

ALSO GROWS

Sha’ul: Asked for; the name Saul.

שָׁאוּל

The shared root links David’s request for Michal with the name of the father named in that request.

she’elah: A request or question.

שְׁאֵלָה

This branch keeps the verse’s demand within the language of asking, even as its terms control whether David’s face may be seen.

פָּנַי

panai lifnei

GROWS FROM

פנה

panah

To turn or face toward.

“face; before” in this verse is panai lifnei. The Hebrew words for “my face” and “before” belong to the same word family. English separates them, while the verse repeats the language of facing and being before someone as it makes encounter conditional on Michal’s arrival.

ALSO GROWS

panim: Face; presence.

פָּנִים

“See my face” names access to David’s presence, not merely the sight of a face.

lifnei: Before; in front of.

לִפְנֵי

The phrase “except thou first” uses this related word for “before,” joining the condition to the face-language that frames the sentence.

Access to a promised relationship or encounter is placed behind a named prior condition.

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The word “asked” shares the ⁨שאל⁩ root with David’s “I require,” and Saul’s name, Sha’ul, carries the sense “asked for.” The people asked for a king here; in the present verse, David’s demand names Saul’s daughter as the condition of a covenant.

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2 Samuel 3:13 Meaning: David calls it a covenant