What Does Colossians 3:20 Mean?

Children, hear and respond to your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord.
Colossians 3:20 · SDV
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King James wording
Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.

The Greek word for “obey” is built on “hear”: here, listening already leans toward response.

This verse speaks to a child now as a relationship where hearing their parents takes the shape of response, across the whole scope named by “in all things.” That response is called well pleasing to the Lord.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

It undoes the idea that obedience is separate from listening: the verse’s word for obey carries hearing within it.

ὑπακούω

hypakouō

GROWS FROM

⁨ἀκούω⁩ (akouō), joined with ⁨ὑπό⁩ (hypo)

⁨ἀκούω⁩ (akouō) means “hear” or “listen”; joined with ⁨ὑπό⁩ (hypo), “under,” it forms the sense “hear under” or “heed.”

“hear and respond” in this verse is hypakouō. English “obey” can sound like bare compliance, while the Greek keeps hearing inside the act: ⁨ὑπακούω⁩ (hypakouō) joins ⁨ὑπό⁩ (hypo, “under”) to ⁨ἀκούω⁩ (akouō, “hear”). The verse frames response as attentive hearing carried into action.

ALSO GROWS

hypakoē: obedience, heeding

ὑπακοή

This related noun preserves the same link between hearing and a response that follows.

akoē: hearing, report

ἀκοή

This branch names hearing itself, showing that the word for obey still holds the ear within it.

Scripture treats hearing as a response that takes form in what is kept and done.

Hear and respond, O Israel. The LORD our God is one LORD.
Deuteronomy 6:4 · SDVThe Hebrew word ⁨שְׁמַע⁩ (shema, “hear and respond”) holds hearing together with the response it calls forth.
But he said, Rather, flourishing are those who hear and respond to the word of God and guard it.
Luke 11:28 · SDVHearing the word of God appears together with keeping it.
But be makers of the word, and not hearers only, miscounting yourselves.
James 1:22 · SDVThe verse exposes the gap between hearing that ends at the ear and hearing that becomes action.
Children, hear and respond to your parents in the Lord, for this is aligned.
Ephesians 6:1 · SDV

Both verses use the same Greek verb, ⁨ὑπακούω⁩ (hypakouō, “obey” or “heed”). Ephesians calls this response right; Colossians calls it well pleasing to the Lord, and the shared word keeps hearing at the center of both.

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Colossians 3:20 Meaning