What Does Genesis 34:14 Mean?
And they said to them, We cannot do this thing, to give our sister to an uncircumcised man, for that would be a reproach upon us.
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King James wording
King James Version
And they said unto them, We cannot do this thing, to give our sister to one that is uncircumcised; for that were a reproach unto us:THE KEY
The brothers call the proposed union a reproach to themselves while describing their sister as someone to be given, so their honor, not her voice, governs the sentence.
THE MEANING
The brothers say they cannot give their sister to an uncircumcised man because they would bear the reproach. The sentence places her in the position of one to be given and assigns the dishonor to “us.” Their words show how a community’s sense of honor can shape the way it speaks about a woman at its center.
THE ROOT
עָרְלָה
orlah
GROWS FROM
ערל
ʿ-r-l
To be uncircumcised; עָרְלָה (orlah) means foreskin. Applied to lips, ears, or the heart, the word can describe impeded or unresponsive faculties.
“uncircumcised” in this verse is orlah. The Hebrew phrase literally describes a man “to whom there is foreskin.” Elsewhere, the same word family describes lips, ears, or a heart that do not respond, so this bodily boundary also carries language about openness and response.
ALSO GROWS
orlah: Foreskin; uncircumcision.
עָרְלָה
The phrase in this verse literally says “a man to whom there is foreskin,” making the boundary bodily and explicit.
arel sefatayim: Uncircumcised or impeded lips (Exodus 6:12).
עֲרַל שְׂפָתַיִם
The same word family can describe speech as impeded, extending the image beyond a physical mark.
arel lev: Uncircumcised heart (Jeremiah 9:26).
עֲרַל לֵב
The same word family can describe inward unresponsiveness, linking bodily marking with the capacity to respond.
חֶרְפָּה
cherpah
GROWS FROM
חרף
ḥ-r-p
To taunt, reproach, or expose to public shame.
The brothers do not say the reproach belongs to their sister; they say it would be “unto us.” The root’s connection to taunting gives the word a public edge: the feared shame is also the judgment of others.
ALSO GROWS
charaph: To taunt, reproach, or defy.
חָרַף
The verb shows reproach as something expressed toward someone, not only a private feeling.
cherpah: Reproach, disgrace, or shame.
חֶרְפָּה
This is the noun used in the verse, naming the social burden the brothers say they would bear.
לָתֵת
latet
GROWS FROM
נתן
n-t-n
To give, set, or place.
“give” in this verse is latet. The Hebrew verb carries the sense of giving or placing someone in a relation. Here the sister is grammatically the one to be given, while the reason stated centers on the brothers’ collective reproach.
ALSO GROWS
natan: To give, set, or place.
נָתַן
This is the root verb behind latet, preserving the sense of placing or giving in the sentence.
mattanah: A gift or present.
מַתָּנָה
This noun from the same root shows how the language of giving can frame a person or thing as transferred.
THE PATTERN
Reproach functions as a public burden placed on a person or people, and scripture shows it being borne or removed.
And she conceived and bore a son, and said, God has gathered away my reproach.And the LORD said to Joshua, This day I have rolled away the taunt of Egypt from off you. Therefore the name of that place is called Gilgal to this day.Fixing our sight on Jesus, the one who goes first and brings our trust to its goal, who for the joy lying before him remained under the cross, looking down on the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.THE THREAD
And she conceived and bore a son, and said, God has gathered away my reproach.Both verses use חֶרְפָּה (cherpah), “reproach.” Here the brothers say the shame would belong to “us”; Rachel names that same kind of burden as taken away, showing that reproach can be attached to people without becoming their permanent nature.
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