What Does John 21:17 Mean?
He said to him a third time, "Simon, son of Jonas, do you hold me dear?" Peter was pained because he said to him a third time, "Do you hold me dear?" And he said to him, "Lord, you know all things; you know that I hold you dear." Jesus said to him, "Pasture my sheep."
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Selah Decoded Version The Selah Decoded Version renders what the Hebrew and Greek words meant to the people who first heard them.
King James wording
King James Version
He saith unto him the third time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time, Lovest thou me? And he said unto him, Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love thee. Jesus saith unto him, Feed my sheep.THE KEY
In Jesus’ third question, the Greek shifts to Peter’s own word for love, and that love is immediately given a shape: feed the sheep.
THE MEANING
You can be fully known even where a repeated question hurts; grief and love occupy the same moment. The love you can honestly name is met with the charge to feed the sheep. Here, love takes shape as care for lives entrusted to you.
WHAT THIS UNDOES
The lie that failure makes you permanently unfit to be trusted with what matters dissolves here: grief is followed by renewed responsibility.
THE ROOT
φιλεῖς
phileis
GROWS FROM
φιλε- (φιλέω, phileō)
To love, feel affection for, or regard with friendship.
“do you hold me dear” in this verse is phileis. Jesus uses ἀγαπάω (agapaō, love) in his first two questions, then φιλέω (phileō, love with affection) in the third, the word Peter has used in all three replies. The shift need not rank one kind of love above another: the final question meets Peter in his own words, then joins that love to care for the sheep.
ALSO GROWS
philos: Friend; beloved.
φίλος
This word family makes love relational: in John 15:13, Jesus speaks of laying down one’s life for one’s friends.
philadelphia: Brotherly love; affection between siblings.
φιλαδελφία
It carries affection into a bond between people, echoing how Peter’s love is linked to the care of others.
οἶδας
oidas
GROWS FROM
γνω- (γινώσκω, ginōskō)
To know, recognize, or come to know.
English repeats “know,” but Peter uses two Greek verbs: οἶδας (oidas, know or perceive) for Jesus knowing all things, then γινώσκεις (ginōskeis, know or recognize) for knowing Peter’s love. The line moves from complete knowledge to the personal recognition of the love Peter names.
ALSO GROWS
gnōsis: Knowledge; knowing.
γνῶσις
It shows the knowing-family behind Peter’s appeal to be understood.
gnōstos: Known; recognized.
γνωστός
It brings out the personal side of the second “knowest”: Peter’s love is recognized, not left unseen.
THE PATTERN
Love becomes visible through concrete care for those placed in its keeping.
And now, Israel, what does the LORD your God ask of you, but to stand in awe of the LORD your God, to walk in all his ways, to love him, to serve the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your living soul,I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his living soul for the sheep.Little children, let us not love in word, nor in the tongue, but in works and in truth.THE THREAD
No one has greater love than this, that someone lay down his living soul for his friends.“Friends” translates φίλων (philōn), from the same word family as Peter’s φιλέω (phileō), his word for love. The connection opens love as a bond expressed through care, which John 21:17 immediately directs toward the sheep.
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