What Does Judges 21:6 Mean?

And the children of Israel grieved for Benjamin their brother, and said, One tribe is cut off from Israel this day.
Judges 21:6 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
And the children of Israel repented them for Benjamin their brother, and said, There is one tribe cut off from Israel this day.

The word translated “repented” carries regret and consolation in the same root, so Israel’s grief names the rupture without repairing it.

You can grieve a loss and still be inside the consequences that made it possible. Calling Benjamin “their brother” gives kinship a voice, while “cut off” keeps the rupture in view.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

The verse undoes the belief that feeling sorrow for someone is the same as repairing the harm: grief can be real while the rupture remains.

וַיִּנָּחֲמוּ

vayinnāḥămû

GROWS FROM

נחם

n-ḥ-m

To be sorry or regret; related forms also express consolation.

“grieved” in this verse is vayinnāḥămû. In this root family, regret and consolation are held together: the verb can mean to be sorry, and related forms name comfort and a comforter. The shared seed lets grief and consolation sit near each other without claiming the wound is healed.

ALSO GROWS

niḥam: Was sorry; regretted

נִחַם

This is the verbal form used here: Israel’s grief is expressed as sorrow for Benjamin.

neḥāmāh: Consolation; comfort

נֶחָמָה

The same root carries the possibility of consolation, though this verse names the loss without saying it has been repaired.

menaḥem: Comforter; one who consoles

מְנַחֵם

This branch shows how the root of regret also gives language to someone who meets another in sorrow.

Grief can name the loss of kin even when sorrow alone cannot reverse what has happened.

And the king trembled, and climbed up to the upper room over the gate, and wept. And as he walked, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! Would that I had died in your place, Absalom, my son, my son!
2 Samuel 18:33 · SDVDavid’s grief for Absalom is immense, yet the death remains; sorrow exposes attachment without reversing its consequence.
And when he drew near, perceiving the city, he wept over it.
Luke 19:41 · SDVJesus weeps over Jerusalem as its ruin draws near, letting grief name the city’s peril without erasing it.
And Peter went out, and wept bitterly.
Luke 22:62 · SDVPeter’s tears follow his denial; the grief is real, but it does not make the denial unhappen.
And the LORD relented of having made humankind upon the earth, and it pained him at his heart.
Genesis 6:6 · SDV

Judges 21:6 and Genesis 6:6 use forms of ⁨נחם⁩ (naḥam, to be sorry or grieved), rendered “repented” in both verses. The shared root lets the word carry inward sorrow, while each verse holds its own distinct rupture.

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Judges 21:6 Meaning