What Does Judges 19:3 Mean in the King James?

And her husband arose, and went after her, to speak friendly unto her, and to bring her again, having his servant with him, and a couple of asses: and she brought him into her father’s house: and when the father of the damsel saw him, he rejoiced to meet him.
Judges 19:3 · KJV
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King James Version The King James Version, first published in 1611. Selah Verse shows the standard text.

This verse in the Selah Decoded Version

He comes intending to bring her back, but the verse’s only completed return is her bringing him into her father’s house.

The verse holds intention and outcome apart: a person can pursue reconciliation and speak toward another’s heart, yet that person’s response still takes its own shape. Here, the return he seeks remains an aim; she brings him into her father’s home, and her father rejoices to meet him.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

Wanting to restore a bond does not prove that the other person has returned.

לְדַבֵּר עַל־לִבָּהּ

lədabbēr ʿal-libbāh

GROWS FROM

דבר

d-b-r

speak, utter words

“speak friendly” in this verse is lədabbēr ʿal-libbāh. The Hebrew says, literally, to speak upon her heart. The same word-family can name both a spoken word and a matter, so the speech is part of his attempt to bring her back, not merely a pleasant tone around it.

ALSO GROWS

dābār: word; matter, thing

דָּבָר

The link between a word and a matter makes his speech part of what is happening between them.

dibbēr: to speak, say

דִּבֵּר

This is the speaking action in the verse, directed toward her heart.

לַהֲשִׁיבָהּ

lahashivah

GROWS FROM

שוב

sh-w-b

turn back, return

“bring her again” in this verse is lahashivah. The verb describes his purpose as causing her to return, or bringing her back. Yet the verse records his aim and her movement into her father’s house; it does not say that she returns to him.

ALSO GROWS

teshuvah: return, turning back

תְּשׁוּבָה

It carries the same movement of turning back that he seeks for her.

mēshīv: one who brings back, restores

מֵשִׁיב

This form makes explicit the causative sense in his stated purpose: he wants to bring her back.

An approach toward restoration is not the same as a completed return; completion takes a responding movement.

Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
Isaiah 55:7 · KJVTurning back is followed by mercy, showing the answering movement that completes the return.
Therefore say thou unto them, Thus saith the LORD of hosts; Turn ye unto me, saith the LORD of hosts, and I will turn unto you, saith the LORD of hosts.
Zechariah 1:3 · KJVThe verse makes the return reciprocal: one turns toward God, and God turns toward that person.
And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.
Luke 15:20 · KJVThe son’s return meets the father’s welcome, making the responding movement visible.
Therefore, behold, I will allure her, and bring her into the wilderness, and speak comfortably unto her.
Hosea 2:14 · KJV

Both verses use the Hebrew construction ⁨דבר על לבה⁩, literally, speak upon her heart. Hosea makes clear why the KJV’s “friendly” carries the sense of speech aimed at the heart, while Judges still leaves the intended return unresolved.

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Judges 19:3 KJV Meaning