What Does Titus 2:4 Mean in the King James?

That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
Titus 2:4 · KJV
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The verse treats love for a husband and children as something formed through teaching, not merely as an emotion that appears on its own.

This verse holds sound-mindedness and affection together: your inner steadiness takes shape in love for the people closest to you. It presents that love as something that can be taught and learned.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

This undoes the belief that love is either spontaneous or absent and cannot be formed.

φιλάνδρους

philandrous philoteknous

GROWS FROM

⁨φιλο-⁩ (from ⁨φιλέω⁩, phileō)

Affection; to love or hold dear.

“love their husbands; love their children” in this verse is philandrous philoteknous. The two phrases are compounds: one directs affection toward a husband, the other toward children, and both begin with the same ⁨φιλο-⁩ element from ⁨φιλέω⁩ (phileō, to love with affection). English repeats “love,” while Greek shows one shared root of affection branching into two concrete bonds.

ALSO GROWS

philadelphos: Brother-loving; showing sibling affection.

φιλάδελφος

This same affection element extends family-like love into relationships beyond the household.

philostorgos: Tenderly affectionate; devoted.

φιλόστοργος

This word-family also carries the warmth of close, caring bonds, not only an abstract idea of love.

σωφρονίζωσιν

sōphronizōsin

GROWS FROM

σώφρων

sōphrōn

Sound-minded; having a sound or well-governed mind.

The verb rendered “teach ... to be sober” describes training someone toward sound-mindedness. Its word-family links clear judgment with the formation of a life, placing taught affection alongside inner steadiness.

ALSO GROWS

sōphrosynē: Sound-mindedness; self-control.

σωφροσύνη

It shows the quality toward which the teaching in this verse points.

sōphroneō: To think soundly; to be of sound mind.

σωφρονέω

This branch makes the mental dimension explicit: the teaching forms a way of seeing and judging.

Scripture presents love as something formed and expressed through the close bonds of family life.

And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.
Deuteronomy 6:7 · KJVTeaching is woven into ordinary life at home, showing how what is learned takes shape through repeated closeness.
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Proverbs 31:28 · KJVFamily affection becomes visible in the words of honor spoken between those closest to one another.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Ephesians 5:25 · KJVLove within marriage is described as a lived commitment expressed through giving.
But as touching brotherly love ye need not that I write unto you: for ye yourselves are taught of God to love one another.
1 Thessalonians 4:9 · KJV

“Brotherly love” translates ⁨φιλαδελφία⁩ (philadelphia, brotherly affection), which shares the phil- affection element in Titus’s husband-loving and child-loving compounds. Titus names affection within the household; this verse extends the same word-family into the community and says that love itself is taught.

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Titus 2:4 KJV Meaning