What Does Matthew 14:9 Mean?

And the king was pained, yet because of the oaths and those reclining with him, he commanded it to be given her.
Matthew 14:9 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
And the king was sorry: nevertheless for the oath’s sake, and them which sat with him at meat, he commanded it to be given her.

The king’s sorrow is real, but the oath and the watching table still govern what he does.

Sorrow can be real while a promise and an audience still shape the next action. The king grieves, yet he commands that her request be granted. Regret and release from a binding choice are not the same movement.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

Visible sorrow does not guarantee that the harm will stop.

ἐλυπήθη

elypēthē from lypeō

GROWS FROM

λυπ-

lyp-

Grief, pain, sorrow.

“pained” in this verse is elypēthē from lypeō. The Greek names genuine grief, not indifference. Yet the sentence holds that grief beside the oath and the guests, so the sorrow does not cancel the action.

ALSO GROWS

lypē: Grief or sorrow.

λύπη

This noun shares the sorrow-root and makes clear that the king’s feeling is pain, even as he gives the command.

perilypos: Exceedingly sorrowful.

περίλυπος

This intensified form appears in Mark’s parallel account, where the same grief remains beside the oath and the guests.

ὅρκους

horkous from horkos

GROWS FROM

ὁρκ-

hork-

An oath or sworn pledge.

The oath is named as a reason for the command, alongside the people at the table. A spoken bond and a watching audience together shape what the king does.

ALSO GROWS

horkizō: To put someone under oath or adjure.

ὁρκίζω

This verb shows the oath-root at work as a binding spoken charge.

exorkizō: To adjure or charge under oath.

ἐξορκίζω

This related verb keeps the focus on words that place someone under a sworn obligation.

Sorrow can coexist with an action still governed by a public promise and the people watching.

And the king was encircled by grief; yet for the sake of his oath, and for the sake of those reclining with him, he would not set her aside.
Mark 6:26 · SDVThe same grief, oath, and watching guests appear together, while the king still grants the request.
The trembling of man sets a snare, but the one who leans his full weight on the LORD is set on high.
Proverbs 29:25 · SDVThe verse names how concern about other people can become a snare that shapes a person’s choices.
When Pilate saw that he gained nothing, but that instead an uproar was rising, he took water and washed his hands before the crowd, saying, I am innocent of the blood of this aligned man. You see to it.
Matthew 27:24 · SDVPilate acts before the multitude as pressure rises, showing public eyes shaping a consequential choice.
And the king was encircled by grief; yet for the sake of his oath, and for the sake of those reclining with him, he would not set her aside.
Mark 6:26 · SDV

Matthew’s “sorry” comes from ⁨λυπέω⁩ (lypeō), grief; Mark intensifies the same root family with ⁨περίλυπος⁩ (perilypos), “exceeding sorry.” Both accounts place the grief beside the oath and the guests, showing that sorrow and the action can remain together.

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Matthew 14:9 Meaning: The king’s sorrow is real