What Does Matthew 15:4 Mean?

For God commanded, saying, Honor your father and mother, and, Whoever speaks evil of father or mother, let him end in death.
Matthew 15:4 · SDV
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King James wording
For God commanded, saying, Honour thy father and mother: and, He that curseth father or mother, let him die the death.

The verse sets the act of assigning parents worth beside a sentence of death for cursing them, making the bond both honored and violently guarded.

God’s command names father and mother as worthy of honor, then states that whoever curses either is to die. The verse places a severe, explicit penalty beside honor; it does not soften the violence of that consequence.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

It undoes the belief that contemptuous speech toward a parent is a trivial offense: this verse names it as deserving death.

τιμᾷ

timā

GROWS FROM

τιμ-

The root ⁨τιμ-⁩ (tim-) expresses value or worth; ⁨τιμάω⁩ means to value or assign worth.

“Honour” in this verse is timā. The Greek verb frames honor as recognizing or assigning worth. Its branches connect honor with both value and preciousness, so the command describes a relationship given weight, not merely a polite title.

ALSO GROWS

timē: value, price, or honor

τιμή

This branch shows that honor carries the sense of recognizing what someone is worth.

timios: precious or costly

τίμιος

The same root describes what is valued as precious.

atimos: dishonored or held without honor

ἄτιμος

This opposite form makes visible what happens when worth is withheld.

מְקַלֵּל

məqallēl

GROWS FROM

קלל

The root ⁨קלל⁩ (qalal) conveys lightness or slightness; in this form it means to curse or treat with contempt.

“speaks evil of” in this verse is məqallēl. In the Hebrew line Matthew quotes, the curse verb comes from a root for being light or slight, so cursing carries the image of reducing a parent to insignificance. The quoted law places honor and contempt on opposite sides of a question of weight: a parent is treated as worthy or as negligible.

ALSO GROWS

qal: light or slight

קַל

This root sense helps disclose the contemptuous force beneath the word translated “curseth.”

qelalah: a curse or imprecation

קְלָלָה

This noun names the curse that the verse pairs with its severe consequence.

The text treats honoring parents as a life-weighted bond, pairing the command with a severe consequence for cursing and a promise of well-being for honoring.

And he who curses his father or his mother is surely put to death.
Exodus 21:17 · SDVThis Torah verse states directly the severe consequence that Matthew places beside the command to honor.
Give weight to your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you, so that your days may be lengthened, and so that it may be good for you, in the land that the LORD your God gives you.
Deuteronomy 5:16 · SDVHere the command to honor parents is joined to prolonged life and well-being.
Give weight to your father and your mother, which is the first commandment with promise. That it may go well with you, and you may be long in days upon the earth.
Ephesians 6:2-3 · SDVThe command is repeated with its promise of well-being and long life.
And he who curses his father or his mother is surely put to death.
Exodus 21:17 · SDV

This is the Torah sentence behind Matthew’s closing clause. Its Hebrew ⁨מְקַלֵּל⁩ (məqallēl, “cursing”) comes from ⁨קלל⁩ (qalal, “to be light”), casting the offense as making a parent insignificant; Matthew preserves the death sentence beside the command to honor.

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Matthew 15:4 Meaning