What Does Proverbs 10:1 Mean?

The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son makes his father glad; but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.
Proverbs 10:1 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.

Wisdom does not stay inside the wise son; it becomes another person’s joy.

A child’s wisdom reaches beyond the child and becomes gladness in the father. A child’s foolishness also reaches beyond the child, settling as heaviness in the mother.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

The verse undoes the idea that a child’s choices affect only the child: wisdom and folly become another person’s joy or burden.

חָכָם

ḥākām

GROWS FROM

חכם

To be wise or discerning.

English can make “wise” sound like a private trait, but ⁨חָכָם⁩ (ḥākām), “wise,” shares its consonantal seed with ⁨חָכְמָה⁩ (ḥokhmāh), “wisdom,” and ⁨חָכַם⁩ (ḥākham), “to act wisely.” Here, wisdom has an outward effect: gladness reaches the father.

ALSO GROWS

ḥokhmāh: Wisdom.

חָכְמָה

This noun shares the root ⁨חכם⁩ and names the quality embodied by the ⁨חָכָם⁩, the wise son.

ḥākham: To be wise or act wisely.

חָכַם

This verb shares the root ⁨חכם⁩ and shows wisdom as something expressed in action, not just possessed as a trait.

A child’s path becomes part of a parent’s lived joy or grief.

A wise son gladdens a father, but a foolish man despises his mother.
Proverbs 15:20 · SDVThe verse again places a child’s wisdom beside a father’s gladness, making the family impact of the child’s path visible.
I have no greater joy than this, to hear my children walking in truth.
3 John 1:4 · SDVA child’s way of life becomes joy for another, showing that the effects of a child’s path reach beyond the child.
For this son of mine was dead, and is living again; he had lost his way, and is found." And they began to be glad.
Luke 15:24 · SDVA son’s state changes the father’s grief into shared joy, echoing how a child’s path is felt across the family.
A wise son gladdens a father, but a foolish man despises his mother.
Proverbs 15:20 · SDV

The same Hebrew word ⁨חָכָם⁩ (ḥākām), “wise,” appears in both verses. Its pairing with a glad father returns alongside the mother’s burden, making the family contrast clear.

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Proverbs 10:1 Meaning