What Does Proverbs 15:18 Mean?
A man of heat stirs up strife, but the one slow to flare stills the contention.
Key words are shown with the Hebrew or Greek and what each word meant.
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King James Version
A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife.THE KEY
In Hebrew, “slow to anger” is “long of nostrils”: anger gets a longer span before it flares, and strife goes quiet.
THE MEANING
Quick anger feeds strife; a response that takes longer to flare quiets it. In the moment a disagreement rises now, the space before anger breaks out changes whether conflict grows or settles.
WHAT THIS UNDOES
The verse undoes the belief that forceful anger settles a dispute: heat stirs conflict, while slowness quiets it.
THE ROOT
אֶרֶךְ אַפַּיִם
ʾerekh ʾappayim
GROWS FROM
ארך
ʾ-r-k
Be long, lengthen, or extend. The phrase literally means “long of nostrils,” an idiom for being slow to flare with anger.
“slow to flare” in this verse is ʾerekh ʾappayim. The first word comes from the root for being long, so “slow” carries an image of lengthened time before anger flares. The verse connects that length directly to strife becoming quiet.
ALSO GROWS
ʾārōkh: Long
אָרֹךְ
This adjective from the same root makes the phrase’s image of extended time visible.
ʾōrekh: Length
אֹרֶךְ
The noun names the quality the verse gives anger: more length before the flare.
יַשְׁקִיט
yashqit
GROWS FROM
שקט
sh-q-ṭ
Be quiet or undisturbed; in this verb’s form, cause quiet.
“stills” in this verse is yashqit. “Appeaseth” can sound like persuading or placating a dispute. The Hebrew verb pictures making it quiet: the slow-to-flare person changes the strife’s state.
ALSO GROWS
shāqaṭ: Be quiet, rest, or be undisturbed
שָׁקַט
This base verb names the quiet state that the verse says follows the slow response.
šeqeṭ: Quiet, stillness
שֶׁקֶט
This related noun names the settled condition that contrasts with stirred-up strife.
חֵמָה
ḥēmāh
GROWS FROM
חמם
ḥ-m-m
Be hot or grow hot; חֵמָה names heat and rage.
The Hebrew phrase is a “man of heat.” That heat stirs up conflict, while the lengthened time before a flare makes strife quiet.
ALSO GROWS
ḥam: Hot or warm
חַם
This related word shows the concrete heat image carried by the wrath word.
ḥōm: Heat
חֹם
This noun makes explicit the heat at the root of the verse’s image of wrath.
THE PATTERN
A delayed flare interrupts the chain by which anger multiplies conflict.
The one slow to flare has great discernment, but the one short of breath lifts up folly.The LORD is compassionate and full of favor, slow to flare, and abounding in faithful love.Know this, my beloved brothers. Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to swell.THE THREAD
And the LORD passed by before his face, and called out, The LORD, The LORD God, compassionate and full of favor, slow to flare, abounding in faithful love and truth,The word translated “longsuffering” is the same Hebrew phrase, אֶרֶךְ אַפַּיִם (ʾerekh ʾappayim), “long of nostrils” or slow to flare. Proverbs shows that this lengthened anger quiets conflict.
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