What Does Proverbs 17:14 Mean?

The beginning of strife is the opening of waters, so let it go before contention is uncovered.
Proverbs 17:14 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with.

Strife begins with an opening, and the verse places the decisive moment before that breach lets the conflict run loose.

A dispute begins as a breach: what is released can spread beyond the moment that opened it. The decisive point comes before the quarrel breaks out fully, while leaving the contention is still possible.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

A little contention is harmless because it can always be stopped once it has fully begun.

פּוֹטֵר

pōṭēr

GROWS FROM

פטר

patar

to release, let loose, or open

The word translated “letteth out” carries the sense of opening and release. The same root appears in ⁨פֶּטֶר⁩, the opening of the womb: the verse marks the first breach, the moment something held in begins to emerge.

ALSO GROWS

peter: the opening of the womb; that which first opens it

פֶּטֶר

This branch makes the image about an opening itself: once a boundary gives way, what was held back emerges.

pāṭūr: released or exempt

פָּטוּר

The root can also describe a state of release, echoing the movement from contained to let loose.

מָדוֹן

māḏôn

GROWS FROM

דין

din

to judge or plead a case

The word for strife is linked to the language of judgment. A dispute can quickly turn people into cases to be tried, making the quarrel more than a passing disagreement.

ALSO GROWS

din: judgment or a legal claim

דִּין

This related word shows how contention can take the shape of a case demanding a verdict.

dān: he judged

דָּן

The same root names the act of judging, revealing how strife can become a contest over who is right.

Conflict is easiest to stop at its first opening, before fuel and delay let it grow.

Without wood the fire goes out; without a whisperer the strife lies down.
Proverbs 26:20 · SDVRemoving what feeds a quarrel lets it die down, just as withholding an opening keeps released water from spreading.
Even so the tongue is a small limb, and it lifts its neck over great things. Look how great a forest a little fire kindles!
James 3:5 · SDVA small beginning can kindle something far larger, as a first breach can release a spreading conflict.
Come to terms with your opponent at law quickly, while you are on the road with him, lest your opponent hand you over to the judge, and the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.
Matthew 5:25 · SDVThe verse places resolution early, before a dispute moves through one consequence into another.
Set apart to me every firstborn, whatever opens the womb among the children of Israel, of humankind and of beast; it is mine.
Exodus 13:2 · SDV

The same root, ⁨פטר⁩ (patar), stands behind “letteth out” here and the opening of the womb in Exodus. One opening lets strife loose; the other marks first emergence, making the opening itself the point to notice.

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Proverbs 17:14 Meaning: Strife begins with an opening