What Does Proverbs 6:20 Mean?

My son, guard your father's command, and do not let fall your mother's instruction.
Proverbs 6:20 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
My son, keep thy father’s commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother:

The verse’s paired verbs make inherited wisdom something you guard and something you refuse to abandon.

You are addressed as a child entrusted with both a father’s commandment and a mother’s instruction. Their guidance stands together in your life now, held as something to preserve rather than discard.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

It undoes the belief that a mother’s instruction is secondary: the verse places both parents’ guidance in the inheritance entrusted to you.

נְצֹר

nĕṣōr

GROWS FROM

נצר

n-ṣ-r

Guard, watch over, preserve.

“guard” in this verse is nĕṣōr. The Hebrew verb means more than retaining a rule: it pictures guarding something entrusted to you. Its related word for a shoot or branch also carries the image of life continuing to grow; instruction is something preserved and passed on.

ALSO GROWS

nōṣēr: One who guards or watches over

נוֹצֵר

This related form makes the active sense of “keep” visible: the commandment is treated as something under care.

nēṣer: Shoot, sprout, or branch

נֵצֶר

The same root family links guarding with continuing growth, an image of wisdom carried forward.

תּוֹרָה

tôrāh

GROWS FROM

ירה

y-r-h

Point, direct, instruct.

Torah means instruction, and its root carries the sense of pointing or directing. The mother’s teaching is guidance with a direction, held alongside the father’s commandment.

ALSO GROWS

yārāh: To point, direct, or instruct

יָרָה

This verb reveals the guiding sense underneath the mother’s “law.”

mōreh: Teacher or instructor

מוֹרֶה

The related word for a teacher shows instruction as a person guiding another toward a way.

Wisdom remains alive when instruction received is carried inward and kept across generations.

And these words, which I command you this day, shall be in your heart.
Deuteronomy 6:6 · SDVInstruction is placed in the heart, where it can remain present beyond the moment it is spoken.
I store your word in my heart, so that I do not miss the mark against you.
Psalm 119:11 · SDVThe word is kept within, where it shapes the reader’s path.
For this reason, we must hold ourselves all the more toward the things we have heard, lest we ever drift away from them.
Hebrews 2:1 · SDVWhat is heard needs holding, because instruction can be allowed to slip from reach.
My son, do not let my instruction slip from you, and let your heart guard my commands.
Proverbs 3:1 · SDV

“Keep” here and in Proverbs 6:20 comes from ⁨נצר⁩ (natsar), meaning to guard or preserve. Proverbs 3:1 locates that guarding in the heart, opening the image of instruction held inwardly.

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Proverbs 6:20 Meaning