What Does Romans 16:13 Mean?

Embrace Rufus, picked out in the Lord, and his mother and mine.
Romans 16:13 · SDV
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King James wording
Salute Rufus chosen in the Lord, and his mother and mine.

Rufus’s mother is “mine” too: the verse names a kinship that crosses household lines.

In the Lord, being chosen and belonging to a family of care stand together. Rufus is named as chosen, and his mother is also claimed as mother. The verse presents kinship that reaches beyond one household.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

It undoes the belief that only blood can make someone truly family: Rufus’s mother is also “mine” in the Lord.

ἐκλεκτόν

eklekton

GROWS FROM

⁨λεγ-⁩ (leg-), in ⁨ἐκλέγω⁩ (eklegō)

Pick out, select; with ⁨ἐκ⁩ (ek), “out,” the word names one selected.

“picked out” in this verse is eklekton. English “chosen” can sound like a settled label, while its Greek word family keeps selection visible. Rufus is marked out in the Lord, and the verse places that belonging beside the intimate bond of a shared mother.

ALSO GROWS

eklegomai: Choose, select

ἐκλέγομαι

This verb makes the act behind being chosen visible; Luke 6:13 uses it when Jesus chooses twelve disciples.

eklogē: Choice, election

ἐκλογή

The related noun names selection itself; Romans 11:5 uses it for a remnant according to election.

Belonging in the Lord takes the form of real kinship that crosses household boundaries.

For whoever does the will of God, this one is my brother, and my sister, and my mother.
Mark 3:35 · SDVJesus describes belonging to God through the language of siblings and mothers.
Then he said to the disciple, Behold your mother! And from that hour the disciple took her into his own house.
John 19:27 · SDVA mother and disciple are joined in a concrete bond of care that reaches across households.
But the Jerusalem above is free; she is the mother of us all.
Galatians 4:26 · SDVShared belonging is pictured as having one mother.
Coming to him, as to a living stone, tested and set aside by men, but chosen by God and precious,
1 Peter 2:4 · SDV

Peter uses the same Greek word family for “chosen” when describing the living stone. The word links Rufus’s being chosen in the Lord with what is chosen and precious to God.

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Romans 16:13 Meaning: Rufus’s mother is “mine” too