What Does Song of Solomon 8:8 Mean?

We have a little sister, and she has no breasts; what shall we do for our sister on the day she is spoken for?
Song of Solomon 8:8 · SDV
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We have a little sister, and she hath no breasts: what shall we do for our sister in the day when she shall be spoken for?

Before the little sister is spoken for, her smallness becomes a shared question of care.

You recognize the part of life that is not yet mature and wonder what its next season requires. The verse leaves that need exposed and the answer open: care begins with asking what can be done for her.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

Being unready means nothing can be done for you; here, her immaturity prompts a question about how to care for her.

יְדֻבַּר

yedubbar

GROWS FROM

דבר

To speak or declare; the related noun also means a word, matter, or thing.

“spoken for” in this verse is yedubbar. The phrase rests on a root that holds speech and matter together. Her future is presented as something spoken about, while the family’s question makes her well-being the matter at hand.

ALSO GROWS

davar: Word, matter, or thing

דָּבָר

Speech and the matter being discussed share the same root, linking her prospective future to the family’s concern.

dibber: Spoke or declared

דִּבֵּר

This verb form keeps the phrase grounded in speaking about her, rather than describing a future that has already arrived.

קְטַנָּה

qetannah

GROWS FROM

קטנ

To be small or young; to be lesser in size or degree.

The root can describe both smallness and youth, so “little” can carry a sense of developmental stage as well as size. The verse names her present immaturity plainly while setting it beside a future threshold.

ALSO GROWS

qāṭōn: Small or young, masculine form

קָטֹן

The masculine form shows the same root’s basic sense of smallness and youth.

qetannim: Small ones or younger ones

קְטַנִּים

In the plural, the word family can describe those who are lesser or younger, emphasizing smallness as a position in development.

When someone is not yet ready for a coming threshold, their condition becomes a shared responsibility.

And he said to him, My lord knows that the children are tender, and the flocks and herds that nurse are upon me. And if men drive them hard for one day, all the flock will die.
Genesis 33:13 · SDVThe children and young animals are tender, so their limits shape what the group can safely ask of them.
He feeds his flock like a shepherd, gathers the lambs in his arm, carries them against his chest, and gently leads the ones who nurse.
Isaiah 40:11 · SDVThe care given to the lambs and the young makes their vulnerability part of how the flock is led.
But when Jesus saw it, he was vexed, and said to them, Let the little children come to me, and do not hold them back, for the governance of God belongs to such as these.
Mark 10:14 · SDVThe little children are received as they are, rather than treated as too young to belong.
The small one shall become a thousand, and the little one a strong nation; I, the LORD, will hasten it in its time.
Isaiah 60:22 · SDV

Song calls the sister qetannah; Isaiah uses the same q-t-n root in “little one” and “small one.” The echo lets smallness name a present measure without making it the measure of what can follow.

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Song of Solomon 8:8 Meaning