What Does Matthew 19:6 Mean?

So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What God has yoked together, let no one pull apart.
Matthew 19:6 · SDV
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This verse in the King James

King James wording
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

The Greek says God yoked them together, so “one flesh” names a shared life bound by God, not simply two people standing side by side.

Where this bond is present, the verse names it as one shared embodied life: two become “one flesh.” The Greek joining word evokes a pair bound together under a yoke. Human separation is a rupture of the joining the verse says God forms.

WHAT THIS UNDOES

The verse undoes the belief that marriage is only two independent lives sharing a household: it calls the union “one flesh” and names separation as the division of a bond God forms.

συνέζευξεν

synezeuxen

GROWS FROM

ζευγ

zeug-

yoke; join as a pair

“yoked together” in this verse is synezeuxen. The English “joined together” can sound like simple closeness, but ⁨συνέζευξεν⁩ names being yoked as a pair. The image connects “one flesh” to a shared bond: two remain distinct people, yet their lives are joined under one yoke.

ALSO GROWS

zygos: yoke

ζυγός

This related word makes the yoke image in the joining verb visible: the pair is bound together, not merely near each other.

syzygos: yokefellow; companion

σύζυγος

This related word for a companion carries the sense of being paired under a yoke, illuminating the shared bond in the verse.

A formed bond changes two separate lives into a shared life that is not casually severed.

Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother, and clings to his wife, and they become one flesh.
Genesis 2:24 · SDVThe verse describes two lives cleaving into one flesh, the same bond Matthew names as God-joined.
And if one overpowers him, two will stand against him, and a threefold cord is not quickly torn.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 · SDVA joined life gains strength from its bonds and is harder to break than one standing alone.
For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cling to his wife, and the two shall be one flesh.
Ephesians 5:31 · SDVThe verse repeats the movement from two to one flesh, showing the bond as a shared life.
What therefore God has yoked together, let no human pull apart.
Mark 10:9 · SDV

Mark uses the same Greek verb, ⁨συνέζευξεν⁩ (synezeuxen), from ⁨ζευγ⁩ (zeug-), “yoke; join as a pair.” The shared root brings the image into focus: God joins the pair under one bond, and the verse names human separation as breaking that joining.

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Matthew 19:6 Meaning