What Does Proverbs 17:9 Mean?
He who covers rebellion seeks love, but he who doubles back on a word splits apart the closest friends.
Key words are shown with the Hebrew or Greek and what each word meant.
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King James wording
King James Version
He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.THE KEY
The Hebrew for “matter” is davar, a word that also means “word,” so repeating the matter means bringing its words back between friends.
THE MEANING
The verse places two movements side by side: covering a transgression seeks love, while repeating a matter separates close friends. When the matter is carried forward again in speech, it becomes a force that divides the relationship.
WHAT THIS UNDOES
It undoes the belief that repeating an offense proves care for the relationship: the verse says repetition can separate close friends, while covering a transgression seeks love.
THE ROOT
דָּבָר
davar
GROWS FROM
דבר
To speak; a word, matter, or thing
The Hebrew word davar can mean both a matter and a word. Repeating the matter therefore brings its words back between friends, and the verse names separation as the result.
ALSO GROWS
dibber: spoke; spoke words
דִּבֵּר
This verb shares the root דבר with davar, linking the matter under discussion to speech.
medabber: speaking; one who speaks
מְדַבֵּר
This form makes the shared root visible in the act of speaking that repeats the matter.
מְכַסֶּה
mekhasseh
GROWS FROM
כסה
To cover
“covereth” in this verse is mekhasseh. The root for covering sits beside seeking love: the image is of a breach being covered rather than continually brought back into speech. The verse sets that movement against repetition, which separates friends.
ALSO GROWS
kasah: to cover
כָּסָה
This verb shares the root כסה and names the covering expressed in the verse.
nikhsah: to be covered
נִכְסָה
This form shows the same root as something under cover, echoing the verse’s image of a transgression covered.
פֶּשַׁע
pesha
GROWS FROM
פשע
Rebellion; breaking away
“rebellion” in this verse is pesha. The offense is named with a word for breaking away. The verse contrasts covering that breach with repeating the matter until close friends are divided.
ALSO GROWS
pasha: to rebel; to break away
פָּשַׁע
This verb shares the root פשע and makes the breaking-away sense of the noun explicit.
poshea: one who rebels; one who breaks away
פּוֹשֵׁעַ
This form carries the same root into the person who commits the rebellion named in the verse.
THE PATTERN
Love protects a relationship by covering an offense rather than keeping it active through repetition.
Hatred wakes strife, but love covers all rebellions.The insight of a man is slow to flare, and it is his adornment to pass over rebellion.And above all, hold love stretched out among yourselves, for love covers a multitude of missed marks.THE THREAD
Hatred wakes strife, but love covers all rebellions.The Hebrew verb translated “covereth” comes from the same root, כסה, as “covereth” in Proverbs 17:9. Proverbs 10:12 makes the connection plain: love covers, while stirring up conflict keeps division active.
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